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Speak Out: Is 'Black Friday' Taking Over Thanksgiving?

Forget about the day after Thanksgiving sales, some stores are cashing in on Black Friday sales beginning Thanksgiving day. Is family time being sacrificed for shopping? Tell us what you think in the comments section below.

 

What happened to family gatherings at grandma's, watching The Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade and slipping into a tryptophan-induced coma in front of the nearest TV while watching a football game?

The retailers got a little greedier. This year, the holiday creep has begun.

Instead of enjoying a nap and nice chat with Aunt Mary, who only visits twice a year, you'll scarf down that plate of food in a frenzy to get to the nearest mall.

Thanksgiving has become another day to rake in sales. Last year, the National Retail Federation said that stores that opened earlier saw a significant boost in sales.

In 2011, the National Retail Federation released results from a shopping survey and found that 28.7 million people shopped online and at stores on Thanksgiving Day — up from 22.2 million in 2010. More people than ever before also shopped online and in stores on Black Friday, as 86.3 million shoppers braved the crowds that day alone, according to the results.

But one retail employee said she's had enough.

Casey St. Clair, a Target employee for six years, has started an online petition to stop Target from opening on Thanksgiving. So far, the petition has garned more than 200,000 and is starting to gain support from some Target investors. St. Clair said she would like to spend the day with family and to rest.

Have retailers taken Black Friday sales too far? Is the holiday creep ruining  your family gathering? Sound off in the comments section below.

Related Topics: Black Friday 2012, Black Friday sales, Holiday Guide, Small Business 2012, Target Petition, and speak out

Laura

12:45 pm on Thursday, November 15, 2012

This should be a day of Thanks, to be spent with loved ones. Not everything should be about money. Is this what we want to teach our children to be more concerned about money than family? I feel it hurts the joy of the event for people to know that they need to be concerned about getting ready for work or to be one of the first ones in a line to save money on an item. Let's stayed focused on one event at a time. Don't let the big stores steal life's pleasure from us! They do not respect the traditions of most American families and are leading some of our family members away from them by bribing them with savings. Let's boycott it and then it will stop. Keep our families together for the few special times we have to share.

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Doreen

1:45 pm on Thursday, November 15, 2012

Well said I agree with you 100% There is no greater gift then family time and being all together..... Life is too short we never no how much time we have!!!

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Hal Millard

2:12 pm on Thursday, November 15, 2012

Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. I want to enjoy it; the last thing I want to do is shop (but I'm a typical man, and wait till the last minute anyway). However... I've noticed that Black Friday can be a good excuse (for the ladies, especially) to escape family members for awhile, especially when there's a large family gathering that's together for the holiday weekend in one space.

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Jessie Gable

11:17 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Hal, my mom and I have been using that excuse for years now. None of our other family members have our style and Thanksgiving is when we spend them with the mass of crazy relatives. So, "you ready to go get blah blah blah" has always been our easy escape to get away.

KissMyGrits

2:42 pm on Thursday, November 15, 2012

Stay closed on Thanksgiving. I feel bad for the employees that have to work - let them have one full day off withe their family before the craziness begins. I personally choose not to leave the house on Black Friday. I stay home and decorate instead.

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Carolyn Farr Smith

3:08 pm on Thursday, November 15, 2012

When the holiday festivities were over last Thanksgiving, I did venture out to the malls and Toys R Us, just to see who was crazy enough to stand in line for the stores that were opening early. We were running a live blog on Patch and tweeting all that we saw and heard in lines and from customers. It turned out to be a lot of fun to cover. And I actually did a little shopping along the way, but don't tell my boss! I can see the down side for the folks who actually have to man the cash registers and wrap all those lovely items. My sister has always worked for a retailer and it's long hours and even longer days during the shopping season.

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SJ405

9:19 am on Friday, November 16, 2012

I'm pretty disgusted by this. I am not yet even 30 years old and the dramatic change we've seen in this area of our communities is astonishing. I feel like the focus of this article is misplaced however, because it seems more concerned with some pressure we might feel to get out and go shopping on Thanksgiving rather than on the poor people who have been forced to go to work on Thanksgiving. This was always the one day of the year that any one of any belief system was granted a day off to be with friends and family. It is shameful that consumerism has hijacked this day.

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Tom Utley

9:26 am on Friday, November 16, 2012

I don't have a problem with this. People ought to be able to make their own decisions about what they do with their life. If you don't want to stay home all day on thanksgiving, and you'd like to go shopping, that's great, good for you. I like spending time with family so that's what I'll be doing.

I think if people could shed this puritan urge to run everybody else's life, we'd all be much better off.

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John A. Kauth

9:48 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Tom, It's not an urge to run someone else's life. Unless you like running the lives of the people required to work on Thanksgiving. Once upon a time companies had a moral sense as well as a corporate identity. Some still do. Chik Fil A closes every Sunday and loses that business. Staples stays closed on Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter. Publix, unlike their competitors is closed today. There is absolutely no reason for stores with non-essential services to be open today--other than greed.
Happy Thanksgiving!

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stanley seigler

3:53 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Once upon a time companies had a moral sense as well as a corporate identity [John A. Kauth say]

there was a time in sville's not too distance past, when businesses closed on sundays, half day on wed and on all holidays...and

believe folks were happy then...but guess they are really, really, happy now...progress you know.

shop, shop, til you drop
tell st peter at the golden gate
that you that to make him wait,
but i really need mo stuff
(borrowed fr 'gotta have another cigerette')

William J. Hamilton

1:21 pm on Saturday, November 17, 2012

Protesters will gather on
Black Friday Nov. 23. near the Tanger Outlet Mall Walmart from 10 am—12 noon as
part of an international day of strikes and protests against the retailer. The demonstration will be held at the corner
of Center Point Drive and Tanger Outlet Blvd, Across from the Center Point
WalMart in North Charleston, SC.

Those interested are
invited to join South Carolinians and an international movement to compel
Walmart to transform its corporate culture to one which promotes human
happiness and dignity including fair pay and benefits for its employees,
commitment to US and locally manufactured goods, and increased opportunities
for secure, full time employment for its workers.

On Black Friday activists
associated with http://makingchangeatwalmart.org/ and other organizations will protest and
strike against Walmart worldwide.



The North Charleston protest will be
a safe and legal demonstration, conducted with notice to law enforcement. Arrests are not anticipated.



The protest location is near a stop
served by the CARTA #11 & #104 bus lines.
Please use transit if you can.
Demonstrators should not park in the Walmart Parking lot.



There is a Facebook event signup with
further information



http://tinyurl.com/tangerwallbf or one may call Tel 843 870-5299.

Some participants will gather at the
IHOP nearby at 9 am for Breakfast.

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SDR

5:49 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Since Thanksgiving is a day of giving thanks, those that serve Materialism correctly spend the day shopping.
Praise God(whatever your god is)from whom all blessings flow!

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Olga I. Packard

12:02 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

I'm for spending time with family, good friends, and yes, Aunt Mary who travels for hours each year to spend time with family. Thanksgiving Day should be celebrated as intended. Shopping can be done another day.

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John A. Kauth

12:58 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Exactly, good post. The stores can close for three days out 365 as they used to. Essential services excepted.

FugitiveSquirrel

8:50 am on Saturday, November 24, 2012

So exactly what is at the stores on Thursday that will not be there on Friday? Having the opening times creep into Thursday is just wrong.
Black Friday evolved from women wanting to get a head start on shopping the day after Thanksgiving, often going with family members that were around. It was almost a good thing, something enjoyable and informal for those that wanted to partake while the rest of us were home in our warm beds. Businesses (wanting to end the year 'in the black" rather than "in the red" offered teh incentives to start shopping early in the cold and dark.
The corporations have now turned it into such a sad, sad display. I'm all for capitalism, but time that was granted to the working folks to spend with their families has been hijacked by corporations and that the media (like The Patch) have turned it into a blood-sport. That diminishes family and community ties and turns us into mindless, base creatures. Hardly the best way to start into the holiday season.

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FugitiveSquirrel

8:51 am on Saturday, November 24, 2012

How refreshing it would have been to see articles about how folks give back to their community, or service projects that youth do, or a piece on traditions and where they come from, on how and why to make special gifts rather than succumbing to the Buy More mentality, rather than chasing the "bargain" that bleeds your humanity dry.
Essential services should be in force (with huge thanks to the folks who supply those service), but everyone else should be allowed to have one day in the year that they can have some breathing space and a moment to slow down and say Thank You.

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